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You’re Not Broken. You’re Just Stuck Using Old Tools.

I help high-achieving men upgrade the skills that once kept them alive — so they can finally trust, rest, and live fully.

MEET DEMONTA

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I’m a psychotherapist and coach for high-achievers. I work with the men who “made it out” — the first-born sons, the ones everyone depends on, the ones who never drop the ball. The middle-childs who were left to fend for themselves and learned to only trust themselves. On the outside, you’ve built success. But inside, it feels like:

If you stop moving, everything will fall apart. You can’t rely on anyone else so you do it all yourself. You bring stress home, and it’s hurting your marriage and your kids. You probably think you’re broken. That you’re messed up and beyond fixing. But I’m here to tell you that you’re not. You’re just running on the survival skills that got you here. My job is to help you upgrade those skills so you can build real trust, healthier relationships, and a life that doesn’t collapse the moment you take a breath.

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MY SERVICES ARE FOR YOU IF…

You’re tired of being the one everyone leans on, but no one seems to lean back. You want to improve your relationships without becoming ‘soft’ and stop repeating your father’s (or mother’s) patterns. Even though you’re successful on paper, inside you still feel like you’re fighting for acceptance. You want to trust people again without feeling like you’re risking everything.

THE ONE WHO MADE IT OUT

The one your family depends on. The one who never drops the ball. From the outside, you look like you have it all together but inside, it feels different:

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You don’t trust others to show up, so you do everything yourself

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You keep people at arm’s length & then wonder why they’ren't there.

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You push harder and harder, but it never feels like enough.

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1849 Sawtelle Blvd, Ste. 610, Los Angeles, CA 90025

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